Exploring Relationships in Literary Nonfiction.

Despite what I learned about my wife after she died, I know that journals and diaries tell only part of the story.

I don’t doubt that she loved me ― and I know that I loved and still love her. I now realize that her life might not have been exactly the life I thought it was.

But isn’t that the way for all of us? How much do we share ― even with our closest loved ones ― and how much do we keep hidden? How much is left unsaid across almost half a century

Why do we do this? And at what cost to us, and to the ones we love? I’m exploring these concepts and more as they unfold (or unravel) in this new phase of my life as a widower.

Articles & Podcasts

In my article, I share how the pain of losing my wife and the discovery of her journals uncovered many thoughts she never shared.

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Angela and I discuss what it means to grieve in a world that often doesn’t know how to talk about it.

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In this conversation with David, I share how I found solace in processing my grief through writing.

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A podcast about the new “normal” and life after loss.


My daughters and I sit down and talk about our lives after losing Sue—wife, mother, and affectionately called Nanny by her grandchildren. Sometimes we laugh, sometimes we push each other’s buttons, and sometimes we go deep into the things our family (well, most families) avoid.

Dad & Daughter Dialogues podcast is equal parts heart, edge, and most of all honesty—an invitation to remember, to question, and to shake the “everything’s fine” response in favor of getting real.

Because everything is not fine. And that’s OK.

The DSF Blog

Philosophies, random thoughts, and memories I thought worthy of capturing and sharing with the world.

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